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Jan09

10 tips to keep intimacy alive and well in marriage

By: Mahasin D. Shamsid-Deen Source: Jamiatul Ulama After intimate contact, couples need to take time to savor the closeness they feel in that moment. Intimacy between married couples starts slowly and deepens over time with kindness and understanding.  Below are ten tips for a healthy intimate relationship with your spouse. 1. Kiss There are many ways to kiss a spouse and no reason not to do so. It is a wonderful expression of affection and attraction and is from the Sunnah. So kiss as often as you like and in ways that are mutually enjoyable. Don’t neglect kissing as unimportant. 2. Look, speak, and touch each other gently A kind expression; whispered words that express...

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Dec30

Wife vs. girlfriend: A world of difference

By: Syed Iqbal Zaheer Source: Jamiatul Ulama The character and personality of a girlfriend is quite different from the character and personality of a wife. She who had been a good girlfriend, might succeed as a wife, or might not. In most cases that does not happen. Not because she can never be a good wife, but because, the disappointment is oppressive. Similar is the case when we compare the boyfriend against the husband, writes SYED IQBAL ZAHEER. Satan has a million guiles. One of them is that of an innocent relationship between a boy and a girl. They believe (or pretend to believe) that their relationship is pure, free of any sexual overtones and undertones, and full of sisterly or...

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Dec19

13 points on being a great “in-law”

  By: Pure Matrimony Source: Pure Matrimony “Allah commands justice, the doing of good and liberality to kith and kin, and He forbid all shameful deeds and injustice and rebellion; He instructs you that ye may receive admonition.” (Surah An-Nahl: Verse 90) Almost every society especially the ones flourishing in the subcontinent or the ones influenced by subcontinent culture is a huge victim of interference of both parents and in-laws in the affairs of children especially after their marriage. Parents should understand that Allah has bestowed upon them set of responsibilities towards their children and vice versa. However it is evidently clear from Quran and Sunah that children are not...

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