In The Name Of God The Most Merciful, Most Compassionate

All Marriage

Jan14

The blessing of a wife

By: Shaykh Abdullah Adhami Source: Beautiful Islam By getting married you are not just getting a wife, you are getting your whole world. From now until the rest of your days your wife will be your partner, your companion, and your best friend. She will share your moments, your days, and your years. She will share your joys and sorrows, your successes and failures, your dreams and your fears. When you are ill, she will take the best care of you; when you need help, she will do all she can for you; When you have a secret, she will keep it; when you need advice, she will give you the best advice. She will always be with you: when you wake up in the morning the first thing your eyes will see...

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Jan10

The secrets to appreciating your spouse

By: Shaykh Abdul Hamid Is`haq Saheb Source: Jamiatul Ulama Generally, husbands and wives take each other for granted; to the extent of being off-hand in speech, insensitive of the other’s feelings and ungrateful for whatever kindness the other does. Sadly, today, we are so proud that we cannot even say “JazakAllah khayran” to the wife (or to the husband) – when some kindness is shown. Whilst we choose not to recognise the favours of the spouse, we are very quick to identify the shortcomings and failings of the spouse. Often, our fights stem from pride and from both sides, there is unwillingness to acknowledge when in the wrong or seek forgiveness. Many couples behave like little children...

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Jan09

10 tips to keep intimacy alive and well in marriage

By: Mahasin D. Shamsid-Deen Source: Jamiatul Ulama After intimate contact, couples need to take time to savor the closeness they feel in that moment. Intimacy between married couples starts slowly and deepens over time with kindness and understanding.  Below are ten tips for a healthy intimate relationship with your spouse. 1. Kiss There are many ways to kiss a spouse and no reason not to do so. It is a wonderful expression of affection and attraction and is from the Sunnah. So kiss as often as you like and in ways that are mutually enjoyable. Don’t neglect kissing as unimportant. 2. Look, speak, and touch each other gently A kind expression; whispered words that express...

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